Jennifer Lopez’s main priority is ensuring that she and Ben Affleck’s children feel loved and supported. However, reports suggest that as the holidays approach, Affleck might feel she is going a bit too far.
While Ben has been attempting to distance himself from Jen, she is eager for their blended family to celebrate together and often reaches out.
According to a SheKnows report, Jennifer Lopez has been attending the same events as Ben Affleck and pushing for continued group activities with the kids. If he disagrees, she suggests he would be seen as the bad guy.Now, Jennifer Lopez is trying to convince Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner to join a big family celebration for Thanksgiving and Christmas, claiming it’s for the kids. However, Ben doesn’t believe it’s solely for their benefit, as Lopez makes strong efforts to get everyone involved.
Reports suggest that Jennifer Lopez is offering to host a large dinner, seemingly unconcerned about how uncomfortable it might be for Jennifer Garner, who would also need to attend alongside Lopez and Ben Affleck.
It’s becoming challenging as Jennifer Lopez has made it clear she’s not backing down. She believes it would be unfair to deny the children the chance to celebrate together.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck first connected on the set of Gigli. They began dating soon after and got engaged by the end of 2002. However, due to intense media pressure, they postponed their wedding in 2003 and eventually split just days before the ceremony. By 2004, they had broken up.
Lopez and Affleck rekindled their romance in 2021, got engaged, and tied the knot in a lavish ceremony a year later. After months of speculation, Lopez filed for divorce on August 20, citing April 26, 2024, as the date of separation, according to TMZ.